Online dating for all species
Site Guide - Flirts
Breaking the ice without falling in the water
Take a look at our 'How to . . .' section on flirting, including a start-to-finish guide showing you how it all works.
Finding your flirts
The orange tab will take you to your flirts page. That's the easy bit. Switching between the list of flirts you have recieved and the those you have sent is just as simple, with the Received flirts and Sent flirts links.
Your flirts list
The flirts in both lists are arranged by date, with the newest first. Anything more than three weeks old will not be listed, which is about as long as you can expect anyone to wait!
Love is blind . . .
. . . and thankfully your flirts list is not, which makes things a lot easier. Colour-coded messages indicate whether they have been read and whether the member have been added to your contacts.
Balls
When you receive a flirt, the ball's in your court, and its up to you what happens next. Selecting a flirt message will expand the view to show you the sender's photo, a link to their profile page, a link to block contact from them and a reply form.
Select the Accept or Decline button as you prefer.
